You should make the first move when you are the first to realize that a move should be made. Simple enough? The days of old would surprise you. the old school had it’s way of bending convention to suit individual circumstances, if you don’t believe me start asking grandma or grandpa to tell stories. The truth is sometimes you may have the better line of sight and the other person may not have had the chance to experience what you did, so walk on over and say HELLO! Man, Woman who cares because remember you are in this for YOU and your wants and needs. If you want that beautiful person standing on the other side of the grocery store you are going to need to make a move. Carpe’ Diem

The key to remember is that no matter how long it’s been since you’ve “been out there” the fundamentals of dating never change. There is always an introduction, number exchange ( email, IM, skype etc) first conversation, first date, first love making session. The key to all of this is simple, you are looking for someone who will not take anything away from your current happiness. You are however looking for someone to fulfill a specific personal goal or set of goals. Make sure you know what you are setting out to find.  Dating is like shopping put together your list but don’t be afraid to check out the specials.

Your Love, Your Rules

August 26, 2010

People have as many opinions as there are minutes in a day. However, when it comes to your relationship you must have the final say so. The most dangerous thing you can do in a relationship is allow the viewpoints of OUTSIDERS interfere or influence your decisions. Only you and your significant other truly know and understand your unique dynamic. Here is a free quote from yours truly “If THEY put US together, THEY can take US apart, but if WE put US together, only WE can take US apart”