You should make the first move when you are the first to realize that a move should be made. Simple enough? The days of old would surprise you. the old school had it’s way of bending convention to suit individual circumstances, if you don’t believe me start asking grandma or grandpa to tell stories. The truth is sometimes you may have the better line of sight and the other person may not have had the chance to experience what you did, so walk on over and say HELLO! Man, Woman who cares because remember you are in this for YOU and your wants and needs. If you want that beautiful person standing on the other side of the grocery store you are going to need to make a move. Carpe’ Diem

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The key to remember is that no matter how long it’s been since you’ve “been out there” the fundamentals of dating never change. There is always an introduction, number exchange ( email, IM, skype etc) first conversation, first date, first love making session. The key to all of this is simple, you are looking for someone who will not take anything away from your current happiness. You are however looking for someone to fulfill a specific personal goal or set of goals. Make sure you know what you are setting out to find.  Dating is like shopping put together your list but don’t be afraid to check out the specials.

Engaging

August 10, 2010

The easiest way to keep someone interested in you is to show genuine interest in them. That’s all engagement is about. Pay attention to your significant other or potential significant other and just listen and reflect on the first personal thoughts they share with you. Stick to that topic asking at least 3 progressive questions.